Wednesday, 12 November 2014

Let Go...

Past...Present..Future..
That's what we live in..That's what we think of..That's how we act...That's how we react to....
We all think of what we have done in the past,what we are doing in the present and what will we be doing in the future.Each day we think of what we did yesterday and what we are supposed to do tomorrow and look into what we are doing today.
But,apart from these we even hold on to some things we did in the past.We hold on to some memories,some hopes,some people,some incidents,some accidents,some relationships some breakups,some link ups,some mistakes we did ,some of which we were accused of but were innocent and the list is endless.
Some times we are o wrapped up in thinking about our past and the mistakes we made that we totally forget about our present.We forget that what we did was the gone time and that shouldn't affect our today.

DON'T LOOSE YOURSELF TRYING TO HOLD ON TO SOMEBODY....

Many a times we hold on to some people who are out of our life by their own choice but we wait for them.We hope that they would come back but they don't and we keep on waiting and waiting and waiting and eventually getting hurt.Our brain knows, even our mind knows the people we are waiting for aren't going to come back but we are just not ready to accept it.Acceptance is a big thing.
When you learn to accept things you learn to LET GO...

LETTING GO IS THE HARDEST THING..NOT HOLDING ON...

We all have made mistakes in our lives..Haven't we?Some big, some small ,some lame,some serious,some are done purposely(well things done purposely cannot be considered as "mistakes",but then too),some happen incidentally,some changes our lives and we change someone's life by our mistake.And some times the guilt of doing that  mistake is so much that we do not forget that.We hold it into our mind and with each passing day that guilt keeps on increasing and increasing.Due to this our life is affected,life of the people around us who relate to us is affected and we don't even understand that.Do we?
But what we need to understand is what we did,whatever were its outcomes,whatever it did to other people and  to us was the past and we cannot change it.What we could do is take its responsibility.Do something that would take away the guilt in our minds.And that can be done in any way you want,you think and you can.
And for that purpose even a simple "SORRY" to the person whom you have hurt is enough.And then just LET GO...

Many a times we hold on to bitter memories.We hate people in those memories,we hate the incidents in those memories, and many a times we hate ourselves.What's the use?Will we be able to change those memories?Would our hatred towards someone do any good to him/her or to even ourselves?
The answer is NO...
So just forget it and LET GO...

THE SIMPLEST WAY OF STAYING HAPPY..IS LETTING GO OF THE THING THAT MAKE YOU SAD...

We have so much things to do in our life.So much to think about so much to act and react for.Then why should we take unnecessary load of our past on to our shoulders?Wouldn't our life be more easy without this load?
If you have done some mistake ask for forgiveness and if somebody is asking forgiveness from you just forgive and forget...
 Don't over think and over complicate anything just LET GO...
And trust me SOMETIMES IT'S BETTER TO LET GO.... 


4 comments:

  1. Lovely message! Will try to apply it :)

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    1. thanx..
      I am trying to apply it too...:) :)

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  2. Great message! Thankyou :) xx
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